Pain and pleasure are the two main motivators for most people. This blog has two purposes! Sick Children and a Novel about My Life… It’s getting dark! I’ve reached the end of the expressway! I rounded the corner, passed the Major Avenue Dinner Club, and heard my favorite cappella group singing! Tonight there is a full moon. Hmm, a light covering of snow is forming. The streetlights are as brilliant as they’ve always been! I’m near my home. Why am I shivering? I’m most likely suffering from a panic attack! Maybe I’m second-guessing myself. Why am I shivering from head to toe? At the same time, my hands are freezing. It’s apprehension about the unknown. My future will be decided in the next few hours. I’ve been committing the “Cardinal Sin” for the past two years. It was a pure act of idiocy. I’m embarrassed by what I’ve done. I feel embarrassed. I now realize that being in a committed relationship necessitates unconditional love and the acceptance of my partner. I was the one who bankrupted that trust! (Click Below to be notified when the book is released.) https://www.jotform.com/70124468620148

Hello, again, my name is Vince, I’ve written a new book. You may love it. You liked my post. I Have A Secret: My Secrets Have Secrets: Shadows of Adultery Act of Forgiveness. The bottom line is we are connected now. And that means something to me. I have one interest. COULD YOU RECOMMEND SOMEONE WHO LOVES TO READ ABOUT? Violence, Drugs, Cheating on their Spouse or Significant other, Stealing money from the Police. Forgiveness, and Death by Cancer. True EVENTS. He needs your help. And I need your… A fascinating book is soon to be released. The link below is the summary of the life of Vincent Pitts. His life in America. He’s retired and living in the Philippines. So here’s my request. You probably have a great relationship. Others are hurting. They live on meager incomes. Struggling in school. You know people that need emotional help. Someone is hurting right now, and considering suicide. It’s 2024, a new year and nothing has changed from last year. STOP THE INSANITY. The link below requires your help. I mentioned earlier about recommending someone. That’s true! You must read the summary yourself. Then recommend it to someone broke, busted, and disgusted. Hurting, feeling trapped in a dead relationship. Tired of being the second, or third mistress? Divorced, can’t afford the buyout. Or living with a person who has no intention of ever marrying you. Guilt and denial go hand in hand. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. So in conclusion, help me help you! Read the summary (I HAVE A SECRET: MY SECRETS HAVE SECRETS. If you like the book, pass it on. Leave a comment. If not, thanks for reading the request. Be Blessed. Click the link: rb.gy/hugzoo

There are 213 countries and territories affected by the COVID-19 coronavirus. territory that is either under the ownership or control of a government. As of 6/19/2020, millions have died worldwide. Take this into consideration. Illinois has reported 6,537 deaths from the coronavirus. I have a question for you. Do you know of anyone who owned a business that had to close due to COVID-19? Are you the owner of a business that will soon be facing slow to nonexistent business due to C-19? Worldwide, bankruptcies are becoming more frequent and widespread. Unless I am missing something, there is no cure.

Should I fight regardless of what COVID-19 is doing, or should I give up and give in? Can I salvage what remains of my company? I believe that the majority of business owners hope to pass on their company to their offspring. Give a future and a legacy! That was my objective before 2008, which eliminated most of my wealth. What, then, do you do? Hmm, how do you feel at the moment?

Simple concept! I saw a movie many years ago in which George Clooney played a character who went around lecturing and counseling people about their business and emotional problems. I’m having trouble remembering the movie right now. Anyway, I believe this shared online blog reflects what is happening to the majority of people. How much does your life currently weigh? A unique and intriguing question that has everyone thinking. Do you want to help me? Consider yourself carrying a backpack for a moment. I want you to be aware of the straps around your shoulders. Do you feel them? We all know what a backpack is, right? Well, most of us have worn one at some point in our lives—to school, work, to catch a bus, and so on.

Now I want you to pack it with all the stuff that you have in your life. Add up all the money COVID-19 has reduced and eased from your life—the business debt, house note, auto note, bills, and other bills other people gave you! Now add some other little things.  Things on shelves and in drawers—the knick-knacks, the collectibles. Feel the weight as that adds up.  So far, so good. I’m asking you to fill up the backpack but with more stuff.  Then you start adding the larger stuff: clothes; tabletop appliances; lamps; linens; and your TV.  In the movie, Clooney is now asking everybody to do something physically impossible. 

A backpack cannot possibly hold all of these items, right? But since I’m asking for the unexpected, just do it. This will, metaphorically speaking, create a gap in your thinking. The backpack is a physical object that represents an idea or emotion, much like a metaphor for your life. The backpack should be getting heavy by now, so let’s go bigger: your company, its equipment, office equipment, inventory, any vehicles, and all of your furniture. Get it in there, autos one, two, and three. Your $300,000 home, studio apartment, or two-bedroom apartment, whatever. I want you to cram everything into that backpack. Now try walking. It’s impossible.” Correct, not difficult, but completely impossible, isn’t it?

This is what we do to ourselves every day. We suffocate ourselves to the point of immobility. And, make no mistake, moving is synonymous with living. It should be clear by now what my metaphor represents. Now I’m going to set fire to that backpack. We just asked you to stuff all of our worldly possessions—all your personals—in that backpack, and now it’s going to be burned! What will occur? What do you hope to gain from it? Photos? Photographs are for people who can’t remember anything. Take a sip of coffee and let the photos burn.

Another important question for you. What would you save? It’s not by accident or coincidence that photos are offered as a first choice. Studies show that photographs are among the things that people hold most important when it comes to their belongings. And, of course, most of our photographs have people in them. This is important because the second part of the blog deals with the people in our lives. 

Allow everything to burn, and imagine waking up the next day with nothing. It’s thrilling, even exhilarating, isn’t it? “Exciting” and “exhilarating” are probably not the first words that come to mind when thinking about “waking up with nothing.”. But Clooney’s goal is to show you and me that the things we love and own weigh us down and that giving them up can be liberating and rejuvenating. This is going to be a little challenging. So bear with me as I make the contest or fight more interesting, possibly even raising the stakes. On one level, it indicates that the subject will be difficult and asks you to deal with me.

While shifting from one thing to another and making this new transition may seem big and awkward on the one hand, the mention of the challenges ahead should pique your interest. Your backpack is brand new. I want you to pack it with people, but only this once. The backpack is the same physical metaphor, but its contents are different and more significant this time.

Start with casual acquaintances, friends of friends, and folks around the office. Then you move in with the people that you trust with your most intimate secrets. Your cousins, your aunts, your uncles, your brothers, your sisters, your parents. And finally, your husband, your wife, your boyfriend, or your girlfriend. You get them into that backpack.  Now follow the same pattern that you did with the objects; namely, start with people who occupy a relatively small place in our lives and more and more progressively move to those who are most important to us.  Don’t worry I’m not going to ask you to light them on fire…Hahahaha…lol…  

Feel the bag’s weight now. Without a doubt, the most significant and weighty aspects of your life are your relationships. They are the ones who are familiar with your flaws and numerous errors. Do the straps hurt your shoulders in any way? All those back-and-forth discussions to reach a consensus. The discussions, disagreements, compromises, and secrets. a flashback to your marriage. Only now do we feel the straps digging into our shoulders, rather than just feeling them. You sense the unresolved discussions. The pictures of the people you adore, your emotions, and your sensations are potent. The majority of people’s weight prevents them from progressing, even when it comes to taking a nice vacation, starting a new business, or growing endeavors. THIS IS THE ISSUE: DISBELIEF, DOUBT, AND FEAR.

You don’t have to be so heavy-lifting. Would you mind putting that bag down? This is the request that you made. Some animals were designed to be carriers of one another, to coexist harmoniously for their entire lives with just one partner for sex. Recognize that we are not the animals I stated previously. Recognize that you will die more quickly the slower you move. Go running; it’s critical for your survival. We’re not like swans. We are people, after all! Make a choice and begin pursuing your objectives.

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When You Don’t Sacrifice For What You Want, Your Children Become The Sacrifice...Again Thank You!!! 

Be Blessed 

Vince & AIREN