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SPOUSE CHEATING ON ME!!!

cheating on your spouse

Ask you a Big Question. Are you in Denial? Equally important, Do you plan to continue to live a life of rejection? Where will You Be five Years From NOW? I’m not here to judge you honestly I SEE YOUR PAIN – I SEE YOUR PROBLEMYou have two choices: Finish reading the intro: Let me help you! I’ll Solve IT!!! And Walk You Through The Steps!!!

I SOLVE REJECTION And Depression PROBLEMS – BY HELPING YOU ACHIEVE CLOSURE AND REMOVE THE BURDEN!!! I CAN DO THIS – I-KNOW-HOW…It’s Frustrating Isn’t it? Dealing with a cheating spouse is a dilemma no one wants. Stop denying it, that’s the problem Isn’t it? I define cheating on your spouse this way! The process of your husband or wife or that special someone is screwing someone else. You get the picture. “Hey McFly, McFly”…Wake the HEAVEN up.

The other issue is many of you are dealing with Gold Digging Divas, they enjoy your ability to pay their bills, take them shopping, to fancy restaurants, walk their dog, fix their auto, etc: etc: etc: If most of the family or church members don’t know you exist. Dead giveaway, you’re not the One. She may not want to sit with you in meetings, there’s a reason. That’s a dead giveaway, you’re not the one. Plain and simple. In His / Her mind you’re the last stepping stone to the right person. They’re waiting for the moment to say, see you won’t wanna be you.

Most Christian people over 50 should date for a purpose. Get married, If that’s the goal. Despite everything you do, the Gold diggers have no plan or intention of marrying you. That’s the bottom line. Hard pill to swallow,’’ right“ Let’s face it, real love will push the limits of your insanity and make you do almost anything for that person. Understand something…LOVE WILL MANIFEST THE ULTIMATE DENIAL…

Let’s illustrate, human beings were designed to give themselves away. LOVE is the perfect vehicle for this to happen. That’s why rejection is so hard to swallow. Sometimes Love, Hate, and Fear bring out the best and the worst in us. I know,’’ I’ve personally lived through both struggles, been there, done that, both situations.

As an example rejection hints or implies one thing, you’re not the one. “ Period” You’re not the right person to make them happy or even meet their needs. And forget about fulfilling their hopes, goals, and dreams.

So what happens after six to 12 months, they never loved you anyway, so there’s no attachment, No glue, No cement, to bond them to you. Summing up the basic laws of the breakup, (YOU’RE NOT THE ONE) They have moved on my friend. Many times you’re the last to know about it because you are blinded by love.

So here you are. “Okay” what’s Next? What does cheating or rejection do to you if untreated? Can cause weight gain, stress-related sicknesses, depression, loneliness, and suicide, those five conditions are like cancer to the bone, only these conditions are curable.

To summarize, cheating on the person you love creates emotional wounds that many times never heal. Can you imagine painting over rust material, and then one day the paint peels off and it never looks the same, and you go back to try to repaint it again and again?

Meanwhile, in most cases the couple never fully heals from the injuries caused by the cheating, furthermore, what’s more, there are many triggers that bring back painful memories. Cheating on your loved one causes emotional imbalances or other extreme reactions, like going to work in a bleary hazy.

Cheating / Adultery is one of the quickest approaches to destroying your relationship. Most of the time the harm is so overwhelming, the marriage can appear unrecoverable. And divorce is the only option. The reason cheating on your spouse is so difficult, it destroys trust, which took years to establish. Two people trying to build a solid working relationship, that’s gone. Cheating can destroy even the most grounded of relationships from front to back.

This book is dedicated to helping you make sound decisions about your future. I want you to know that you are important. You have a purpose, you must become self-aware of your situation, which has brought you to this book. You cannot change the past of a cheating spouse or a gold-digging person. Get the right tools. Likewise, you will be shocked into silence and relieved once you understand there is light at the end of the tunnel.

You may be thinking, what’s my credibility in all this? Well,’’ plenty of experience, I’ve lived through both situations. The short version! I Started Selling Life Insurance to finance the buying and selling of Real Estate, let’s face it people’s banks hate poor people. My first wife was the mortgage person and I found the clients. I was one of the top Life Insurance sales Reps/Managers at the time. My R&E company was buying, renovating, and flipping 18 to 22 houses per year.

As the business grew my wife was diagnosed with Breast Cancer, Friends and family stepped in to help. I could no longer jiggle the Life Sales, Mortgage Deals, Lender, and General Contractor, I had to let some stuff go! Then the worst thing in the world happened, my precious wife passed away after 25 years of marriage. Then the market crashed in 2008 and I lost Millions. I tried to work through it, but after three heart episodes in the Hospital, I decided I’m Out, Game over. Retire and live.

So,’’ I’ll ask you a question. Are you a Christian person? And started the dating process? And you are waiting for a sign to move forward into marriage? And sex is off the table until marriage. And after almost two years She/He still can’t decide. Then walk,’’ No Run,’’ for the nearest exit, and thank God it’s over.

Let me be perfectly clear, I will break down, then clarify every possible scenario. It took me years to move from denial to being transparent. I know it’s overwhelming and frustrating. It hurts. I know, like me you really Loved that person! And they don’t feel the same way about you. And what’s worse, a few weeks later you see both on “FaceBook” planning a wedding. And get this, they still want to be your friend.

This book will help you make the right decision from the beginning. Go from Gold Digger / Diva to the right person. You will see clearly now the rain is gone. It will be bright…bright sun shining days. Wiser, smarter choices in the next relationship.

You may say to yourself why Me? “Good Question” Here’s the answer: Life gives lemons, go make some lemonade. knowledge is power, and with that power comes the capacity of growth to recognize the difference between a Gold Digger diva, and a partner to live happily ever after with.

The ultimate self-healing guide. In brief, I know from experience what state of mind you’re in. I cried, then got angry. Know this, give a man a good reason and He’ll break down and cry. Sometimes you just want to punish someone. Then what, Start here! “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and I discovered who the real prisoner was “YOU” & “ME “ – Easier said than done. Let’s move forward. You Can Do This?

This book is for broken, used and abused, flawed, unloved, people. This book is not for perfect people.

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